How to learn to enjoy sex - and what is so special about it?
Sex is our secret power. It can be said, without it, we fall sick. Why would we say no to pleasure? I believe sex is like a desert. A treat that everyone deserves. Like a biscuit served with coffee. Each of us is different, and we deserve some affection, some relax, and warmth of another person. Let’s not mistake it for love – those are the two, completely separate issues. It is terrific when we can get sexual fulfilment with our loved one. However, what if our better half has way lower sexual needs than we do? What if it is impossible to fulfil our sexual needs with the one we love? Getting pleasure out of sex can be difficult in that case!
The truth about enjoying sex
There’s nothing worse than prudishness and fake sexual modesty. 90% of parents do not try talking to their offspring about sex, not to mention the poor standard of sex education in our country. Since our childhood, we are being told that sex is a taboo subject, not to mention the fact that we do not know how to have a good sex, as well as the safe one. It can be even said that a number of young people perceive sex as something evil. In fact, it’s just the other way round! Sex can only be wrong, when it is not consensual. In every other case, it should be pure pleasure. We should open ourselves to learning how to learn to enjoy sex. If we stick to that harmful opinion, we will never get satisfaction out of it. We will end up feeling guilty. Let’s put an end to this old, rusty opinions! Let’s learn to love our bodies – entirely, the way they are. Let’s learn to say "I love my vagina", or "I like my cock". Men are known to be more willing to do something and serve themselves a handful of love. Whatever the reason, women usually find it more challenging to pleasure themselves.
Masturbation is the first step to achieve full happiness. Men have it way more accessible, they can "well acknowledged with their equipment", since they see it every time they urinate. In the case of women, seeing their genitals requires using a mirror. Masturbation is a form of relaxing and getting acquainted with their own body, as well as learning about our sexual desires. How should we tell our partner we what we want, if we aren’t even sure whether we like it?
How to get pleasure from having sex?
The easiest way is to learn to love yourself. Tell your partner what you want. Teach him what you like, what you crave for, even though it could include the stranges fetishes. Don’t be ashamed of your body, and if your partner does something you don't find pleasurable, don't hesitate to let him know. Don't be afraid to guide his hand and show him how to give you pleasure. Where to kiss and how to kiss. Open your whole self for sex, and getting pleasure out of sex will be easier.
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